Hey there! I use They/It pronouns! I don't exactly know what name I want to go by..
This is my carrd that I am using to store my labels and their definitions!
I'm professionally diagnosed with ADHD and Autism, and I support informed self diagnosis.
I'm an apothisexual [aka sex repulsed] minor, so no NSFW stuff.
Umbrella Terms
[In order: Aroace and Non-Binary flags]
| Main Genders | |
|---|---|
| Panagender | A gender that is both agender and pangender and/or somewhere between those identities. |
[Panagender flag]
| Gender Collecting Terms | |
|---|---|
| Iocuscollector | A kind of term collecting that describes someone who collects labels or terms more for the fun of it than anything else. [Personally, I only collect genders] |
[Iocuscollector flag, by me]
| My beautiful collected genders :) | I will not use any genders I cannot (ex: genders related to neurodivergencies I don't have, culture-exclusive genders outside of my culture, etc) |
|---|---|
| Acething | A gender related to be asexual/ace-spec and a thing-- an acething. |
| ADHDthing | A gender connected to having ADHD & being a thing; an ADHDthing. |
| Arothing | A gender related to being aromantic/aro-spec and a thing-- an arothing. |
| Astronomaesic | An aesthetigender connected to astronomy and its aesthetics, a gender aesthetically connected to astronomy! |
| Autithing | A gender connected to being autistic & a thing; an autithing. |
| Beyondix | A gender that feels as though it came from the deepest points of space, feeling ominous, dark, cold and void-adjacent. |
| Deadthing | A gender for when you're dead, but living. A Thing walking among everyone else. |
| Dragonplushgender | A gender connected to dragon plushies/the concept of the gender is ancient, feral, or even scary, but is ultimately soft and squishy. |
| Plush-dracwurzic | A gender related, in some capacity, to plush dragons and spiciness. |
| Glimcollectic | A gender that feels like you saw it sparkling in the grass, and picked it up to add to your collection of shiny things. It may also be related to corvidcore and magic. |
| Horrorgender | A gender related to horror. |
| Imvasic | This gender is deep and ill-lit, like the void. Its' vastness is terrifying to those who behold it, but oddly comforting to the user of this gender. It feels connected to forbidden knowledge, which it possesses a plethora of. No mortal could ever comprehend what it knows- they would die from the shock. It is as black as the night, with absolutely no light or color to be found. It may be related to being an entity of the void, but that isn't necessary to identify with this gender. |
| Liminalnucleic | A gender connected to abandoned and/or liminal nuclear power plants that have been left due to a disaster. It may also be a KEINgender and related to nuclear power plants being overgrown with nature. |
| Livrefraisic | A gender related to libraries, breaths of fresh air, old books, wooden flooring and high windows, lanterns dying out, and a peaceful afternoon inside. (Can be a collectic gender but doesn’t have to be.) |
| Mistraendergender | A gender related to rain, mist, and lavender. |
| Moonio | a gender that feels gentle but ethereal, like soft moonlight. |
| Oddcoric | A gender related to weirdcore/oddcore. |
| Olivegender | A gender relating to the colors olive-green and purple, specifically the word “fuck”, and generally just the robust feeling of utter chaos and confusion. |
| Ordinaric | A gender that feels similar to an object that has been in a room for so long or is so familiar that people are so used to it being there that it feels forgotten or ignored unless looked for. |
| Pancatgender | Being all catgenders within one's experiences. |
| Phasmaeic | A gender related to ghosts, but not being scary/violent. |
| Predatorthing | A gender related to being a predator and a thing-- a predatorthing. |
| Pumpcarvic | A gender affected by or otherwise related to carved pumpkins! It may be amplified when one is carving a pumpkin, it may also feel as though one's gender is a carved pumpkin--this gender can be considered a subset of pumgender/pumpkingender! |
| Torispringcharic | A gender related to the fictional character Tori Spring from Alice Oseman's books. |
| Whiblacolencic | A gender related to the colors white and black, cold weather, and silence. |
| Wilterranostic | a NOSTIN [nostalgic-in-nature] + UNDIN [undead-in-nature] gender related to soft dirt, wilted grass, and feeling empty, like something is gone and you just can’t figure out what it is. |
| Wonderlandgender | A neurogender that that feels overwhelming, wonderful, peculiar and oddly comforting. |
(In order: Acething, ADHDthing, Arothing, Astronomaesic, Autithing, Beyondix, Deadthing, Dragonplushgender, Glimcollectic, Horrorgender, Imvasic, Liminalnucleic, Livrefraisic, Moonio, Pancatgender, Phasmaeic, Plush-dracwurzic, Predatorthing, Oddcoric, Olivegender, Ordinaric, Torispringcharic, Whiblacolencic, Wilterranostic and Wonderlandgender flags)
| Darker/sadder Xenogenders | TW/CW: GORE |
|---|---|
| Achegender | A gender that relates to not feeling anything but the heavy pain in your chest. |
| Alosolus | A gender that is deeply, profoundly alone and lonely. It could cause a sense of loneliness in the person who is this gender, embody the concepts of solitude and loneliness, represent a large separation from the majority of gendered concepts, etc. |
| Chornullic | A gender related to really wanting to cry, but nothing coming out of your eyes, even if you try forcing yourself to cry. It may also feel empty, agonizing and/or emotionally painful, but doesn’t have to be. |
| Desparica | A gender related to the feeling of despair you get when you have done something wrong and it hurts someone else and you can’t fix it. |
| Fantamindrea | A gender related to fantasizing about other people reading your mind and seeing you’re not ok and going to help you, but being sad cause that’s never gonna happen. |
| Grinoique | A gender related to wanting to scream, but stopping yourself from doing it. |
| Hateselfic | A gender related to hating yourself. |
| Heartcrushic | A gender related to wanting to rip out your heart and crush it in your hands. |
[In order: Achegender, Alosolus, Chornullic, Desparica, Fantamindrea, Hateselfic, Grinoique and Heartcrushic flags]
| Orientation | |
|---|---|
| Apothisexual | Sex-repulsed and on the asexual spectrum/asexual. |
| Aroace | Someone who is both arospec and acespec, aromantic and acespec, arospec and asexual, or aromantic and asexual. |
[In order: Apothisexual and Aroace flags]
| ??? | |
|---|---|
| Voidpunk | A subculture for frequently dehumanized groups [A-spec, nonbinary, neurodivergent, POC, etc], where instead of trying to prove your humanity to the oppressors you recognize they're bigoted and taunt them by saying "What if I'm not human by society's standards? What about it?" |
(They/Kit pronouns and Voidpunk flags)
Neurodivergency Flags
[ADHD, Autism]
